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The “You” that desires to achieve and realise more success in all areas of your life. From close personal relationships at home or at work, through to realising more of your personal potential pushing and stretching you into new levels of awareness that assist you in developing improved self belief and self confidence necessary to realise greater achievement in your personal happiness, finances and business success.

New levels of awareness that assist you in developing improved self belief and self confidence

“Whether you want to motivate yourself”, your team or managers, A Winning Attitude can do just that. A Winning Attitude Program of Character and Attitude Development can assist you in areas of personal development where interpersonal skills become key factors in delivering the right message to others ensuring good positive personal, working, and customer service environments.

“Develop a habit for liking people” – all the great achievers in life have discovered that learning to ‘like’ people has its advantages. Look for the ‘good’ in others, it’s so easy to see faults but everyone has good in them and I say “make friends with the goodness you see”. By developing good relationships with others you build trust, integrity and partnerships that assist you in achieving your goals.

“Learn to give out the best of yourself” – by giving out the best of yourself – the best will return – but not necessarily from the person you gave to. Give others your time, kindness, learn to listen be tolerant and understanding to others, make them feel significant, because like you, they are. When you learn and demonstrate these qualities in yourself you find that the energy you start to emanate towards others has a profound effect on their manner towards you. Bring out the best in others through your own example. Learn to become a role model in any environment.

A Winning Attitude for Success in 2012

Wake Up and manage your life for achievement

From today you will have no more doubts or failure in your life, no more “I’ll start tomorrow” No More I’ll wait for Monday or next week and no more excuses, and putting things off.

Today you start your new life, your new way of thinking Today you will start making changes with zest, commitment, effort and action. Today you will start the action plan for achieving your goals. Today you will succeed in beginning to manage your life for personal and business success. You will do this by directing your subconscious mind and inner powers to create the life you now desire and want. You are ready for change and are happy to take responsibility for the new directions you seek.

To achieve happiness and greater success you have first to understand that all achievement requires taking control to manage your life. You take the helm of your ship and direct the ship to where you want it to go. So think of the ship as your life. You’re in charge and control of your life, no-one else, so you can now direct it in the direction you wish to go.

The next thing you must do is to stop blaming other people for any failings in your life – I hear this all the time in my coaching work – people making excuses why they haven’t achieved the success they seek and there’s always a reason why, excuses range from having children to health issues, their spouse, even owning a dog, shall I go on, the list can be endless.

Whatever excuses you have made in the past for not achieving, these now have to stop. All of the negative excuses will cease to be when you adopt a much more progressive and winning attitude towards where you want to take your life and what it is you exactly want to achieve. Once the excitement kicks in and you start to see things changing in your favour and to your advantage then all the past excuses in the world will not stop you with your new found confidence and self belief on your journey to success and achievement. You started the process and now it is running.

Once you have moved into these new levels of thinking and believing, I want you to take a look at where you are in your life right now, what you have created and achieved so far to date. This represents all the decisions you have made in the past that have led you to this point in time. Have the decisions you’ve made been good for you or could you have done things differently? Well we all learn from making right and wrong decisions. But now things are going to be different you have the opportunity to paint a picture of your life the way you want it to be. To make the right decisions that work for you, choices that will set your life in the direction you want it to go.

This is an exciting time for people as we embrace the freedom we have with inter-dependency and free will in our life. We are all individuals and autonomous in our thoughts and behaviour, but this individuality can be threatened when we allow our self confidence and self belief to slip in our relationships with others as our emotional insecurities come to the fore and rising above them can be difficult. Stress develops from emotional insecurities.

Now we have established more about taking charge and managing your life -this is the year you are going to get things done. This is now your year.

This is the year you will succeed, think it, believe it and make it happen.

You may want to make more money or get a better job, but if you don’t think and believe you can – you won’t.

Set yourself up to Achieve

Whatever it is you want to achieve, you can do it when you direct your subconscious mind and your inner power to start working for you. If you want to make more money, meet the right person, lose weight, improve your health, whatever it is you want to achieve, this is your year to make it happen.

Forget about past failings of last year and the year’s before, they don’t matter this is a fresh start for you now. This time you will succeed. To guarantee this success means you have to change your thinking to become more solution oriented and programme your subconscious mind to attract the success and achievement you desire. This means filling yourself with positive thoughts and feelings for success and achievement. It means believing in yourself, believing in your capabilities, developing self belief and confidence that will carry you onto achieve.

A Winning Attitude Workshops and Licensed Training and Coaching Program www.awinningattitude.com/program aims to get you on the road to achieving more success by helping you adopt positive winning attitudes to attract success and working with your behaviour and habits to ensure you embrace new levels of understanding to realise that effort and action brings you closer to achieving your goals. It is as simple as that.

So start now get rid of any negative thoughts that have kept you in the place you find yourself in right now and be determined to see every day as an opportunity to attract all the things and people you want to achieve the successes you want. Remembering to keep your expectations realistic and achievable and you will make headway and you will make progress in the direction you seek. Every day you will see things working to your advantage, things starting to happen and you will feel excited that your life is now starting to change for the better.

All the thoughts and beliefs you have are planted in your subconscious mind and your inner powers follow your thoughts and beliefs. So what you think and believe is what you get.

You may want to lose weight but if you don’t think and believe that you can – you won’t.

You may want to make more money or get a better job, but if you don’t think and believe you can – you won’t. So your subconscious mind and inner powers are constantly creating the life you want by following your thoughts and beliefs. So start to give them the right instructions and you will succeed in achieving what you want.

Remember what I said this year is going to be different for you, this year you are going to take responsibility to make things happen, and this year you are going to change your attitudes and behaviour in order to attract the right people and situations to you that bring about the success you want and deserve. Don’t let self doubt, negative thoughts and lack of motivation keep you stuck any longer.

This year you will succeed, this year you will get what you want, this year you will direct your subconscious mind and your inner powers to bring you what you want. It’s all about you; believe in yourself, your capabilities and your significance. This year it’s your turn, wake up and make it all happen for you!

Until next time,

Rosie

Have you ever asked the following question?

What makes some people’s lives different from others?

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Why is it that some people are more fulfilled and successful than others and achieve great things in life, even though they perhaps started out life with nothing and had setbacks that deemed them to failure? These people appear to have been gifted with great ‘emotional muscle’ that kept their spirit alive to succeed. A ‘self belief’, that determined for them that they would succeed against all odds.

And yet there are others who have been given everything in life rarely achieve personal fulfilment or success because life is too easy and they cannot be bothered to make changes in their behaviour patterns to motivate and challenge them to achieve more of who they are, regardless of their material success.

The great achievers in life have learned that success can only be measured by our fulfilment in life, from our work, our relationships. Meaning that unless we enjoy what we do and continue daily to work on improving ourselves as individuals and our relationships with others, life can become meaningless and boring and quickly leads to stagnation and hence stress.

If you find yourself at a crossroads in your life, then you need to be asking yourself the following question. ‘Who am I? Answer this question honestly, as this is going to determine where you are, how far you have come in life and even where you now want to go.

Once you have answered that question then you need to ask yourself three further questions, which will gauge if you are really living your life with joy and excitement or whether you are just existing from day to day with little hope that things can get better for you.

• Do I live my life fully
• Do I love enough
• Am I significant

Do I live my life fully ?

This can be measured by the amount of consistency you live with. Consistency can be good it’s about loyalty, trust and reliability which are all good character traits, but in order to achieve much more from your life you need to develop yourself beyond this level of thinking and set challenges for further personal growth and accomplishment. Don’t measure yourself by the hopes and dreams of your parents, your teacher but by your own dreams and aspirations. Learn to take risks, step outside of your comfort zone and experience more of life.

Do I love enough?

Do I constantly work on my relationships with others, do I give enough attention and appreciation to those that matter in my life. Ask yourself am I open with my feelings and emotions and could I give out more of myself to others. Love is what makes the world go round.

Am I significant – do I matter?

Do you live a good life?
Am I living my purpose?
Do I make a difference to everyone around me and to the world? Am I contributing my skills, talents and kindness out to other?
If you do not feel you are significant and have much to offer then Self Awareness is the key to understanding yourself better, your life path and the challenges on offer.

Mr Tony Robbins, personal development guru from the USA talks about CANEI as the key to self awareness and developing yourself fully, to achieve greater personal happiness in all areas of your life. He uses this CANEI concept in mastering his life and goals.

CANEI

Constant and never ending improvement
This concept when practiced daily will eventually improve the quality of your life. If you are constantly focusing on improving all aspects of your life, your work, your relationships and goals, then you are taking control of your personal power and emotions to drive your life in the direction you wish it to go. Commit yourself right now to take action to build momentum and self mastery.

Remember It’s not what happens in your life, it’s what you do with what happens is the key to success and achievement.

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By connecting with your Chakras

1st Chakra – Red

The Kundalini Chakra, at the base of your Spine keeps you grounded in the physical world. It creates the necessary balance and stillness to succeed in your ambitions and dreams. Think RED and visualise your base Chakra spinning like a wheel. Wear RED to activate if you feel this Chakra needs rebalancing.

2nd Chakra – Orange

Just beneath your Navel, this Chakra governs the release of sexual and emotional energy. It enables you to be in balance with your emotions, thus diffusing any build-up of anger. Think ORANGE and visualise this chakra just below your navel spinning like a wheel. Wear Orange to activate if you feel this Chakra needs rebalancing

3rd Chakra – Yellow

Located in your Solar Plexus, this Chakra is the seat of your emotions. Its fire and sun energy is what drives your personal power. Think YELLOW and visualise this Chakra just

4th Chakra – Green

The Heart Chakra is of vital importance. It circulates love, balance and compassion, and keeps your immune system strong and powerful.

5th Chakra – Blue

The Throat Chakra, is tied to creativity and communication, expansion and excitement. You may even feel pressure in the throat when you’re not able to properly communicate your emotions.

6th Chakra – Indigo

The Third Eye Chakra, keeps your psychic and clairvoyant abilities flowing. It is the Pineal Gland, which is like a physical eye with the capabilities of looking upward.

7th Chakra – Violet

The Crown Chakra, this connects you with the higher realms. It governs thought, spiritual connection, understanding, knowing and bliss.

8th Chakra – White

This is the energy centre of divine love, of spiritual compassion and spiritual selflessness. The energy centre that holds your karmic residue. It is so important for you to keep connected with the Eight Chakras and ensure their energies are unblocked and fluid. It’s clear that you possess incredible qualities, which keep surfacing over and over again in your life path, courage, hope, wisdom, intelligence, compassion, and most importantly your desire for self-improvement.